Comments on: Five Fears of Writers (and How to Defeat Them) https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/ Helping writers become bestselling authors Fri, 06 Dec 2024 16:09:35 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.2 By: Michelle Barker https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778958 Fri, 06 Dec 2024 16:09:35 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778958 In reply to V.M. Sang.

That’s awesome that you’re seeing improvement and great that you’re seeking feedback. I think many people (myself included) find something later in life that they wish they’d discovered when they were younger. I console myself with the thought of ‘better now than not at all.’ I wish you all the best on your writing journey!

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By: V.M. Sang https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778953 Fri, 06 Dec 2024 12:43:39 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778953 In reply to Michelle Barker.

I remember learning how some footballers stay behind after training to continue to practice. Not surprisingly, they are the ones we call ‘great.’
Also, with musicians. The top ones will practice at least 8 or 9 hours a day.
Is there such a thing as talent? Well, yes, I think so, but it must be honed.

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By: V.M. Sang https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778946 Fri, 06 Dec 2024 09:43:16 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778946 In reply to paul mansel winter.

I, too was a late starter. My books are OK, but not great. But in the few years I’ve been writing, I can see an improvement. I use a couple of online critique groups to help polish my writing, and they are invaluable.
I agree with the problem of time for an older writer. I wish I’d started sooner!

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By: Michelle Barker https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778613 Sat, 23 Nov 2024 15:55:28 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778613 In reply to paul mansel winter.

This is amazing! I’m so glad to hear you pushed through the fears and did it. I think identifying the fears is half the battle. Keep writing!

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By: paul mansel winter https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778603 Sat, 23 Nov 2024 12:53:38 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778603 In reply to ANGELA ACKERMAN.

Great article. I relate to all these fears, and it makes writing daunting. I didn’t start writing until I was in my 70s, but I thoroughly enjoy the challenges that it presents. Unfortunately, being a late starter doesn’t give me the time to do everything I’m supposed to do e.g. read lots of books in my genre, undertake courses, study the craft of writing, and, worst of all, market my book. I have to prioritise what I do, and in my case, that means writing, editing and working hard! My daughter and son-in-law self-published my book two years ago, and the joy of holding that book in my hand inspired me to continue writing. The fears are still there, though!
Thanks again for your article.

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By: Michelle Barker https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778547 Thu, 21 Nov 2024 23:06:21 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778547 In reply to ANGELA ACKERMAN.

Yes! Conquering one’s fears is contagious in the best way.

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By: ANGELA ACKERMAN https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778546 Thu, 21 Nov 2024 21:54:52 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778546 So glad to see this post. 🙂 Fear are common ground for all writers, and for me personally, seeing so many writers face theirs, go forward and publish, and strive for a happy, successful career didn’t just help me do it myself, it has also helped me work to minimize fear in the other areas of my life!

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By: Michelle Barker https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778509 Wed, 20 Nov 2024 22:43:20 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778509 In reply to Julia.

I couldn’t agree more, and I’m so glad you pointed that out. Thank you.

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By: Michelle Barker https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778495 Wed, 20 Nov 2024 16:55:47 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778495 In reply to BECCA PUGLISI.

Thank you. Talent does seem to be largely a myth. The truth is (I think) so much better: if we read a lot and take courses and practice, we can become good writers. It is not restricted to a chosen few.

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By: Julia https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778491 Wed, 20 Nov 2024 14:32:25 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778491 Something to remember when fear of failure comes up: “by whose standards are you failing? Is it society’s box? Or your own?” We often decide that we must succeed in a certain way because that’s what we’ve seen/be told all our lives. There are many avenues and standards for success. Find your own.

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By: BECCA PUGLISI https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778490 Wed, 20 Nov 2024 13:50:08 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778490 So many good quotes here, Michelle, but this is my favorite: Talent plays a surprisingly small role in this process. This is true in so many fields, but especially so in writing. Hard work and perseverance can often make up for a lack of natural skill, and so much of what we do can be learned. Put in the work and it will pay off.

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By: Michelle Barker https://writershelpingwriters.net/2024/11/five-fears-of-writers-and-how-to-defeat-them/#comment-778464 Wed, 20 Nov 2024 03:08:33 +0000 https://writershelpingwriters.net/?p=57017#comment-778464 In reply to Kay DiBianca.

Thank you. Yes, hard work seems to be the answer, which is encouraging because that’s something that is within our control.

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